Tuesday, January 9, 2007

Salamz - An Intro into a Muslimah's life

Assalamu 3alaykum all :)

Hope all is good InshaAllaah.

Well , where better to finally introduce myself hey. I'm really glad my friend came up with an idea to create this Blog. Should be a good avenue to post our thoughts. I guess as a teenage Muslimah, we realy do go through alot. Many of us experience pressures from our parents, teachers and also try to bear the pressures of society. That alone is a trial within itself. Undoubtedly, the road to any persons success can only be built upon trust in the Almighty, Knower of the Unseen - Allaah ta3aala.

Life cannot possibly be easy for anyone. No matter who we are or where we come from, we are here for one reaosn only and that is to serve our Lord. He knows what is best for us alhamdulillaah. So when it comes to an issue such as marriage this is a time we must also keep these thoughts in mind. To lay our reassurance in Him knowing nothing can be better for us than what He has decreed.

There are many ups & downs, living in the west, studying as well as keeping on the straight path. Many muslims I've personally seen in the West, go through their study but in the meantime are taken in by what they have been offered to them by this Dunyah. Where it's alot easier to take the "easy way out" than to stick to the Quran & Sunnah of the Rasul (sal Allahu 3alayhi wa sallam) then find a pious spouse to help keep you from being led astray. A huge downside to being brought up in the West is that not many people are as practicing as one may have hoped. There are definitely many levels of Religious people, and to find someone who you can relate to Islamically can prove to be a challenge.

Patience. Yep. One really needs to practice it on this side of the world. It really comes in handy, always. Whether we like it or not nothing will Pass us if has not been written for us. We need to keep in mind that Qadr Allaah masha2a fa3aal. If some1 is meant for you a brick wall from here to the 7 skys will not be able to stand in the way. Everything happens for a reason. We need to be patient. Try not to dwell in the past to much, you'll most like only open unhealed wounds as one may say. ;)

May Allah bring us closer to that which is best for us. Ameen.

One last thing before I leave this InshaAllaah. This blog is going to be shared between H1 and H2. Which means there will be 2 of us posting on here. I think I'm going to be H1 though. :D hehe

Ok till Next time.. Take care


Wassalmau 3alaykum wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakaatu

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